弄清自己想要什么很重要
很多人做事都會跟風，別人學英語、跳槽等等，就跟著去做，問他理由，自己也說不清楚，反正就是跟著別人那么做了。然而你是否想過，你要過的是自己的人生，而不是做別人的影子，copy別人的生活。其實，盲目跟風，究其根本，就是根本不知道自己想要什么！
A friend of mine wanted to lose some weight.
我有個朋友很想減肥。
He tried everything. He spent a whole day eating fish soup only.
嘗試過很多方法，甚至一天就只喝魚湯
Then he spent another day fasting. Then he started to skip breakfast. Then, for an afternoon he had fruit only. Then only rice, for 12 hours.
然后第二天節食、第三天開始不吃早餐、下午只吃水果，接下去時只吃米飯堅持12小時
But nothing would work. Big belly, small arms.
然并卵，大肚子小胳膊一直在。
“Why do you want to be skinnier?” I asked.
我曾問他為什么想變瘦。
“I don’t really know, it’s just better” he replied.
他回答說他也不知道，只是覺得瘦更好。
And then he only had salad for a day. And then a Chinese takeaway.
接下去他一天只吃沙拉，隔天只點了份中國菜外賣。
He didn’t know what he wanted, he only knew what he didn’t really want.
他不知道自己想要的，但他知道自己特別不想要的。
I like this quote from Lewis Carroll.
我很喜歡出自路易斯?卡羅爾這一席話。
One day Alice came to afork in the road and saw a Cheshire cat in a tree.
一天，愛麗絲走到分叉口，看到一只柴郡貓正在樹上。
"Which road do I take?” she asked.
”我該走哪條路呢?”她問。
“Where do you want to go?” was his response.
“你想走哪條?”他反問。
“I don’t know.” Alice answered.
“我不知道。”愛麗絲回答。
“Then,” said the cat, “it doesn’t matter.”
“其實選哪條都不要緊。”貓回答。
Hard work is just a tool. But where do you actually want to go?
努力只是工具，重要的是知道自己想要什么。
希望大家都能想清楚，自己想要什么。
很多人做事都會跟風，別人學英語、跳槽等等，就跟著去做，問他理由，自己也說不清楚，反正就是跟著別人那么做了。然而你是否想過，你要過的是自己的人生，而不是做別人的影子，copy別人的生活。其實，盲目跟風，究其根本，就是根本不知道自己想要什么！
A friend of mine wanted to lose some weight.
我有個朋友很想減肥。
He tried everything. He spent a whole day eating fish soup only.
嘗試過很多方法，甚至一天就只喝魚湯
Then he spent another day fasting. Then he started to skip breakfast. Then, for an afternoon he had fruit only. Then only rice, for 12 hours.
然后第二天節食、第三天開始不吃早餐、下午只吃水果，接下去時只吃米飯堅持12小時
But nothing would work. Big belly, small arms.
然并卵，大肚子小胳膊一直在。
“Why do you want to be skinnier?” I asked.
我曾問他為什么想變瘦。
“I don’t really know, it’s just better” he replied.
他回答說他也不知道，只是覺得瘦更好。
And then he only had salad for a day. And then a Chinese takeaway.
接下去他一天只吃沙拉，隔天只點了份中國菜外賣。
He didn’t know what he wanted, he only knew what he didn’t really want.
他不知道自己想要的，但他知道自己特別不想要的。
I like this quote from Lewis Carroll.
我很喜歡出自路易斯?卡羅爾這一席話。
One day Alice came to afork in the road and saw a Cheshire cat in a tree.
一天，愛麗絲走到分叉口，看到一只柴郡貓正在樹上。
"Which road do I take?” she asked.
”我該走哪條路呢?”她問。
“Where do you want to go?” was his response.
“你想走哪條?”他反問。
“I don’t know.” Alice answered.
“我不知道。”愛麗絲回答。
“Then,” said the cat, “it doesn’t matter.”
“其實選哪條都不要緊。”貓回答。
Hard work is just a tool. But where do you actually want to go?
努力只是工具，重要的是知道自己想要什么。
希望大家都能想清楚，自己想要什么。
